It's good to be SELF-ish . . .

Despite what most of us have been told growing up, it's actually quite good to be selfish. Selfish people believe in self-preservation. Selfish people establish and maintain boundaries. Selfish people put their interests first and are not likely to play the martyr. I like being this way. This doesn't mean that I don't make emotional deposits w/my friends and family. It just means that I put myself FIRST on this Earth (second only to God). =)